When heterosexual men have fantasies to be with other men, it’s not an attraction to the male as much as it is an attraction to the sex act itself. That sexual need runs the show, not the person fulfilling the need, adds Joe Kort, a licensed sexologist out of Michigan. On many levels, he is more likely to see being “bi” primarily as a sexual need.” “Also, if a guy is bi, it is much less likely that he has taken the time to really immerse himself in the gay community or to have a deep exclusive emotional sexual relationship with a man.
“These men get all the benefits of being married,” argues Yost.
